Is it just me? or…

Why does it seem that doctor’s assistants take
lessons in being particularly rude? When the doctor put
me on this medication, he added that he wanted me to
keep a diary for a while on medications, exercise, and
meals. I was to bring this in for review by his nursing
assistant, who specializes in diabetes, once a month until
we had things more in control. Keep in mind that he
started me on meds because I had an infected wound that
was fed by my diabetes and was feeding diabetes in
turn. We’re trying to break the cycle. The wound was
such that I had difficulting sitting, standing,
walking, nevermind keeping up with any sort of exercise.
So, this person looks at my schedule and is extremely
critical. And, of course, the topper is: “Did you cease
being a diabetic because you had the wound?” I concur

the accomodation I’ve found for living with diabetes
may not be working at the present, but I don’t see
that being rude will help me. And, add to this that
diabetes didn’t come with independent wealth or more time
in a day to do all these extra things they want as
permanent fixture. Also, I do live with other people which
requires fitting my life and needs with theirs as
well.<br

2 Responses to “Is it just me? or…”

  1. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hiya AnglePie!<br
    Assistant or Medical Specialist being a little disappointed
    that a patient has let his/her exercise routine lapse
    and explain patiently the importance of exercise,
    even during times of pain, but your Diabetes Nurse’s
    actions were completely out of order.<br
    needs to be reported to the Doctor, and any Diabetic
    licensing organisation he/she may belong to. You are the
    patient, they are the Med. Tech.s; they are there to serve
    you and give you advice, not berate you. You pay the
    bills, you call the shots. I would never allow anyone to
    treat me that way - neither Shop Assistant nor Diabetes
    Nurse. If this person is not able to show you the
    respect you deserve, she needs to taken up on
    it.<br

    a new Internist. During the first appointment he
    called me by my first name, without my giving him leave
    to do so. I said nothing, but a few minutes later he
    said, “Well, Devlin, when can you come back in for a
    follow up?” I just replied very innocently: “Well Matt,
    I can come back next week.” He got the hint and we
    got along just fine afterwards.<br
    guns.

  2. Neva Marjory Says:

    doctors wouldn love to put us in little boxes
    with a label. in my clinic 10 mins. is the longest the
    dr spends with a patient please don’t say change dr
    the choices in my country are limited. sometimes the
    patients need a little support. perfectly intelligent
    people need an extra little bit to stay on track and
    unfortunately drs don’t usually recognize or care to give that
    support. why should they they are not wearing the diabetic
    label…..we are…

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