hi, new member…………

Hi, I just joined, as I need someone to talk to.
I am a 33 year old male, just found out about the
diabetes about 3 years ago. I admit that I have not taken
very good care of it. I have a lot of issues with
depression as well and it just seemed to be too much for me
to really care what happened to me. I started out on
insulin, then was moved to Glucophage. That doesn’t seem
to work very well for me at all. I just started back
on medication after a 4 month vacation from
it(having lost my health insurance in December), after I
suffered from diabetic ketoacidosis (spelling?). Since
then, (about 3-4 weeks ago), I can’t seem to get my
blood sugar under 400, most of the time its in the
500’s or 600’s or higher. I am trying to eat much
better and watch what I do and take the meds, but I

can’t get it under control. I feel like crap all the
time. I either feel so exhausted that I<br
sit at my job all day or I am achey and sore or have
stomach cramps, etc. Is this going to be the way I will
feel for the rest of my life? Cause I can’t take it
much longer. My mind is becoming so weary at the
thought that I am going to feel like this forever. Can
someone give me any hope that I will ever feel better?
What I should do, etc.?<br

22 Responses to “hi, new member…………”

  1. Neva Marjory Says:

    ” I can’t seem to get my blood sugar under 400,
    most of the time its in the 500’s or 600’s or higher.
    “<br
    insulin.<br
    think you’re not getting appropriate medicine.<br
    you are actually back on INSULIN (You
    medication…not clarifying) then your dosages must be altered to
    give you what your body needs.<br
    when this rich country can’t keep their own people
    well, and I’m glad you came back to ‘the fold’ so to
    speak. Keep checking those BGs and work with the
    results. Are you perhaps testing one hour after you
    eat&gt; What are your fasting levels in the morning? What
    are you eating and what are you giving yourself
    (insulin) to co-balance the food?<br

    will feel better. You are the captain of your ship.
    You’re here now and all of us will try to help you get
    the “Diabeasties” under control.<br

  2. Neva Marjory Says:

    “DKA isn’t as severe as with many type twos,”
    Sheesh! Read that to mean type twos do not have as severe
    of a case of DKA as type ones do. Yours sounded
    pretty bad. The episode of DKA you describe is fairly
    classic for insulin dependant.<br
    28. Right onto insulin. They did a blood test for
    C-Peptide. This tells the medical team exactly how much
    insulin you are ‘making’. Try to get that
    done.<br

  3. Neva Marjory Says:

    You will feel better, truly; but you will have to
    take action. Don’t panic, cause I can tell you feel
    sort of helpless. All you need to do is take one step
    at a time. Your meds sound like they are really off-
    you may need to be back on insulin. First things
    first- go to your doctor. Discuss the depression with
    him/her while you are there. You may needs meds for that-
    after all, it is hard to help yourself when you are
    feeling depressed. Have you been to a diabetes
    educator/nutritionist lately? If not, try to get something set up- your
    doctor may be able to help with this. It seems like a
    lot, but all you have to do right now is call your
    doctor and get an appointment. Hang in there- you can
    get better control and you will feel better. (get
    your doctor to make sure your thyroid function is

    ok)-Dona

  4. Neva Marjory Says:

    hello Jeff gosh you sound like diabetes has
    pulled you down. diabetes is a way of life we can’t
    fight it but we must try to adapt to it .watching diet
    is not the healthy alternative it is the only way.
    Iam afraid there are no shrtcuts. You didn’t choose
    this but at the same time you didn’t choose your face,
    colour voice etc.. diabetes is part of you and we can
    only accept it as part of ourselves. once you watch
    diet sugars have no choice but to come down….food
    deosn’t eat you …you eat the food . <br
    not something you can take or leave …you are young
    and so lucky to have a computer access imagine all
    the people in third world contries who have no
    support options yet diabetes is something they too get
    and live with.<br

    a lot of the time yet chiildren adults all need it.
    You are soo lucky even when you think you have
    reached rock bottom. THERE IS ALWAYS A BOTTOM LOWER THAN
    YOURSELF.

  5. Neva Marjory Says:

    jenny LOLOL i like diabeasties!!!! <br
    wrote one hour after eating ??? i always test before
    eating?? as bg’s raise a little after food anyway…. am i
    doing something wrong??<br
    200

  6. Neva Marjory Says:

    Last time I saw my endocrinologist he suggested I
    test before meals and if my levels fell within the
    “normal” range most of the time that was OK - his comment
    was “Why test after you eat - it WILL be high”.
    <br
    my levels are before I eat. Occasionally I will test
    after a meal to check on how a meal affects my sugar
    levels, though.<br

  7. Neva Marjory Says:

    Jeff, there are times when I’ve felt just the way
    you describe, and I’ve learnt that the first step has
    to be getting help and the right medication
    (whatever that may be) to get your sugars under
    control.<br
    find everything else starts to fall into place. I feel
    better, I feel happier and optimistic, and the efforts I
    make to eat right are easier when I can see I’m
    getting results.<br
    “Caring for the Diabetic Soul” from the American Diabetes
    Association which helped me a lot when I was feeling pretty
    down about things.<br
    know how you’re going.<br

  8. Neva Marjory Says:

    “but you wrote one hour after eating ??? i always
    test before eating??”<br
    insulin user a check a couple of hours after eating is a
    good idea too. I was asking because in my early days,
    I’d check too soon after a meal as well as before
    eating, and be upset that I had a high an hour after. the
    CDE told me to wait two hours after and that will
    give me a better graph of what My body’s doing with
    the linsulin.<br
    insulin pump (My choice, no more robotic schedules and
    such with a pump) and have gotten well
    regulated.<br
    it is better not to get too “tight” right away as
    you’ll feel ‘low’ (hypo) and it can actually make you
    more prone to retina damage doing it too quickly. If

    someone lives alone or -me for example-lives with another
    who cannot care for them, I think the slightly higher
    readings are safer.<br
    and higher before meals, your treatment may not be
    working for you and needs attention NOW. I wake normally
    to an 86-110 in the mornings. or afternoons, and
    sometimes very early mornings. Have no set schedules these
    days.<br
    talking 400’s and only testing 1/2-1hour after eating,
    I’d tell you to wait until 1 1/2-2 hours after
    eating, then check and see.<br
    check mine about 5-8 times a day. I’ve a subtle nasal
    cold right now, so am checking more like 10-12 times.
    The antihistamines raise my BG’s super yaga! By
    checking them and giving a small amount over normal, I’m
    keeping them under 200 for this cold.<br
    …..ACHOO!) going to bed soon… You take care and stay cool,
    you’ll be OK with us.<br

  9. Neva Marjory Says:

    “Last time I saw my endocrinologist he suggested
    I test before meals and if my levels fell within
    the “normal” range most of the time that was OK - his
    comment was “Why test after you eat - it WILL be
    high”.”<br
    happen to folks. Crimeny sakes oh
    Lordy!<br
    affects my sugar levels, though.”<br
    your intelligence and self caring!<br
    is diabeasties. Type one or two, we can all get the
    complications. That remrk by the endo sounds as if s/he seeks
    “Job Security” by keeping you
    ‘off-kilter’.<br
    non-daibetic telling you when to test or not.<br

  10. Neva Marjory Says:

    Actually my endo is one of the good guys - for me
    checking before meals most of the time works well. I guess
    we all do what suits us. He was also trying I think,
    to reduce the stressful state my GP puts me in by
    expecting levels so low I feel that I’m about to hypo and
    can’t maintain them.<br
    seeks job security. The endo sends me away with good
    advice, feeling calm and optimistic. The GP sends me off
    wondering whether I’ll actually make it across the car park
    before I self-destruct!<br
    everyone and do what I feel suits me best, cos I’m the
    only one who knows when I want to know something and
    why.<br
    concern!<br

  11. Neva Marjory Says:

    “Actually my endo is one of the good
    guys…”<br
    buddies they should test after meals too, just to see how
    they were doing and she says “Oh, the doctor says to
    check a couple of times a week”…GGRRR!<br
    with other severe complications from uncontrolled
    BGs.<br
    least you ARE doing something…right?<br
    someone is comfortable not paying any attention at all to
    diabetes and what it could bring, does that make it right?
    If so, pass that cheesecake! &lt;G&gt;<br

  12. Neva Marjory Says:

    Iam so glad i joined this club. its been nothing
    but positive feed back. I thought i could help others
    but I have received more than i believe thankyou
    mycelt.<br
    was trying to lose wt i reduced my insulin and walked
    9miles daily today i weighed 35lbs, lighter. now I must
    take control of the sugars but iam so scared i’ll get
    in the same cycle again more insulin, more hunger,
    more wt! never again do i want to be “fat”.

  13. Neva Marjory Says:

    “i actually haven’t tested for 3 months!!!! since
    i was trying to lose wt i reduced my insulin and
    walked 9miles daily today i weighed 35lbs,
    lighter.”<br
    soooooo out of it after three months, my doc would kill
    me or I would’ve killed me…I am happy that you’re
    exercising, but what this tells me is that we all tend to see
    BG tests as a sort of “Report Card” like in
    school.<br
    blood check. If I get a higher than normal reading, I
    wonder if it is more the food I ate, or if I’m taking a
    cold med like benedryl or something, and I used to
    overcorrect -go too low- and eat more. Now I say something
    like…”190? well, maybe tomorrow I’ll cut back on this or
    walk more…” instead of just adding

    insulin.<br
    you’ve had an HbA1c done? This will give you a better
    view to how your Long term glucose control
    is.<br
    have been through a LOT and will try to help you steer
    around the holes we may have fell into.<br
    a good day, I’m off to cuddle my doggers and sleep
    a bit more this morning.<br
    5:24 am.

  14. Neva Marjory Says:

    Not testing your BS for 3 months???????????<br
    needles per day <br
    committing suicide.<br

  15. Neva Marjory Says:

    Hi Jeff,<br
    you are having such a hard time controlling your
    sugars. I’m sure that you are stressed out, that might be
    making your sugars go even more out of control. Being
    off your meds for so long, I’m sure, didn’t help much
    either. Will your doctors be putting you back on insulin?
    It sounds like Glucophage isn’t helping you much.
    Make those doctors help you get the right
    meds.<br
    test before breakfast, lunch, dinner and before
    bedtime, and keep a glucose journal, this way you’ll know
    exactly what’s going on, on a daily basis. Keeping a
    glucose journal will also help your doctor find some kind
    of pattern in your blood glucose results, this might
    help your doctor find a better way to help you control

    your sugars. In the journal you can also keep track of
    the foods that you eat, and your stress level. I know
    it seems like a lot of work, especially since you
    are so stressed out right now, but it will really
    help you and your doctor see what’s really going
    on.<br
    you.<br

  16. Neva Marjory Says:

    I have downloaded AOL-Instant messenger, and my
    screen name is wyldceltic1. If you wanna yak and have
    aol, let me know your name too at
    mytcelt@…<br
    frequent.<br

  17. Neva Marjory Says:

    thank you john v<br
    excercise regularly but you guys r rt i must test

  18. Neva Marjory Says:

    I find the words we use to be friendlier if I
    look at it as a blood glucose CHECK. That way I see it
    as less of a ‘report card’ like in school and more
    of data analysis.<br
    minutes a day this takes and ought to feel worth the time
    to check it. Ya gotta come first.<br

  19. Neva Marjory Says:

    My doctor didn’t tell me when to check my sugar,
    just to check 4 times a day when I was first told I
    had diabetes. She prescribed the machine but the
    pharmacist had to instruct me on the use of it. After two
    weeks of checking 4 times a day, my doctor told me I
    only needed to check 2 times a day, alternating one
    day breakfast and supper, the next day lunch and
    before bed but that all my readings were to be under
    150.<br
    after eating, which is about the time when the
    digestive functions have slowed down. She further explained
    that by checking after, it will let me know if the
    reduction in carbs is working or not. She also added a
    fasting in the morning which would determine what my
    levels were over night and told me what “normal” levels

    should be.<br
    are sore.<br
    a new machine for her. The machine checks the blood
    plasma levels instead of the whole blood levels that the
    finger stick checks. There is a difference in the
    readings, but I wonder which is more accurate, the blood
    plasma level or the whole blood level. Anyone know?

  20. Neva Marjory Says:

    “My nutritionist asked me to test out a new
    machine for her. The machine checks the blood plasma
    levels instead of the whole blood levels that the finger
    stick checks. There is a difference in the readings,
    but I wonder which is more accurate, the blood plasma
    level or the whole blood level. Anyone know?
    “<br
    ULTRA and the Freestyle.<br
    used to check blood from the forarms…using a
    particuler lancet.<br
    would ‘hurt’ a heck of a lot more than the
    fingertips.—Just a thought.<br
    of meter you have, I’d need to know the name of it.
    but most are pretty good.<br

  21. Neva Marjory Says:

    plasma is more accurate than whole blood.

  22. Neva Marjory Says:

    Thanks for the reply.

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